Monday, July 18, 2011

Wedding ring

Hey evry Body :)

Yesterday I was involved into an argumentation fight between two parties for the above mentioned subject "its not anew subject" but each time this door is opened I have the same  idea & the same point of view ....
A wedding ring is a symbol of Marriage it also reveals that you’re taken!! by the very nature of the case I believe in the difference between men & woman and that we are more fanciful we are ladies love the rings and bla bla bla. I remember my self during teenage adore to wear my cousin wedding ring and till now i liked to see it and sometime try it :p .. this trivial thing to many means alot to me and i believe that most of ladies feel the same towards that. . Ok I know There are many methods  to symbolize your love & marriage (generally). but this is the familiar, habitual, customary,  homely in our society and even in the whole world .
I’ve many  family members, and friends who do not wear their wedding band. I asked some why ?
here are some answers:
- RG . 42 Yrs , PHD.Chemistry answered with hidden fox smile : "I hate being labeled as married man ,, so any move i attend to do even innocently,  they think you’re looking to cheat" HUH What an answer..
- Mo. 30's Pharmacist : "I don't like to be publicly defined by my marital state. I want to be seen as people before they are seen as married"
which presumes that one cannot be both!!!!.
- SA 29 civil engineer : I’m not anti-jewelry,I just hate the look of a wedding ring.

& finally  My lovely Husband 29yrs  supervisor- with positivism  :  I don't think it’s the ring so much that matter as his attitude.. 

I Liked his sentence its true... Sometime men wear it as external appearance only .. But my concept is unshakable husband should wear it : for the case of :(observance of his wife,commitment, honoring, estimation.... every positive point to value the sacred relationship.... 


I respect man who wear his ring :))) ,, I feel that he feels content for his life, his choice, and gives you a hint that he is a happy married man.. Akeed its not a public case but this external appearance give me peace toward him..




& my mean advice :ch: to All those married women out there whose husbands aren’t wearing rings should be worried. It’s never an innocent choice...

Share me your opinions :))


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5 comments:

  1. Em OmmarJuly 18, 2011 at 3:06 AM

    what about me??

    مممممممممممم
    من أيام حملي بعموره إضطريت أكسر الخاتم لإنه إدي وجعتني
    إشتريت واحد,, بس ماحبيته
    ف مابلبسش كتير

    بحب الإكسسوارات أكتر
    حره أنا
    :sc:

    وبصراحه معنديش مقياس إنه ئديش إنت بتحب مرتك ف لازمن تلبس خاتمها
    مابعرف,, انا هيك عاد

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  2. نيسآانJuly 18, 2011 at 4:28 AM

    لا زوجي ولا انا بنلبس خواتمنا
    من سنه اولى زواج
    :)

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  3. WhisperJuly 18, 2011 at 9:22 AM

    Both of my brothers like to wear their wedding rings ...one of them forgot it when he went to his honeymoon and he bought a new one from there :) since that day he never forget ....and both of them get REALLY mad when one of their wives forget to wear it :)

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  4. ♥●• İzdihër •●♥August 8, 2011 at 8:43 AM

    Man are clever creature .They always looking for new chances.Better keep an eye on them.

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  5. rainbowAugust 9, 2011 at 6:44 PM

    I think it,s a traditional thing , started 50-60 years ago , I remember my grand mother ,she was not wearing this ring ,they use the jewelry gifts but this ring doesn't mean a big thing for them .
    Anyway , i like husbands and wives to wear it . It,s sweet remembrance for important event for them .

    Nice post

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