Hey evry Body :)
Yesterday I was involved into an argumentation fight between two parties for the above mentioned subject "its not anew subject" but each time this door is opened I have the same idea & the same point of view ....A wedding ring is a symbol of Marriage it also reveals that you’re taken!! by the very nature of the case I believe in the difference between men & woman and that we are more fanciful we are ladies love the rings and bla bla bla. I remember my self during teenage adore to wear my cousin wedding ring and till now i liked to see it and sometime try it :p .. this trivial thing to many means alot to me and i believe that most of ladies feel the same towards that. . Ok I know There are many methods to symbolize your love & marriage (generally). but this is the familiar, habitual, customary, homely in our society and even in the whole world .
I’ve many family members, and friends who do not wear their wedding band. I asked some why ?
here are some answers:
- RG . 42 Yrs , PHD.Chemistry answered with hidden fox smile : "I hate being labeled as married man ,, so any move i attend to do even innocently, they think you’re looking to cheat" HUH What an answer..
- Mo. 30's Pharmacist : "I don't like to be publicly defined by my marital state. I want to be seen as people before they are seen as married"
which presumes that one cannot be both!!!!.
- SA 29 civil engineer : I’m not anti-jewelry,I just hate the look of a wedding ring.
& finally My lovely Husband 29yrs supervisor- with positivism : I don't think it’s the ring so much that matter as his attitude..
I Liked his sentence its true... Sometime men wear it as external appearance only .. But my concept is unshakable husband should wear it : for the case of :(observance of his wife,commitment, honoring, estimation.... every positive point to value the sacred relationship....
I respect man who wear his ring :))) ,, I feel that he feels content for his life, his choice, and gives you a hint that he is a happy married man.. Akeed its not a public case but this external appearance give me peace toward him..
& my mean advice :ch: to All those married women out there whose husbands aren’t wearing rings should be worried. It’s never an innocent choice...
Share me your opinions :))